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In Loving Memory of Elisabeth “Lissie” Gerdemann Lulofs
Elisabeth “Lissie” Gerdemann Lulofs, a cherished pillar of the Harvard, Illinois community, beloved mother, aunt, grandmother, sister, and friend, has passed away. Known for her warmth, strength, and remarkable hospitality, Lissie touched the lives of countless people throughout her journey.
Early Life & Roots in Germany
Lissie spent her youth surrounded by the beauty of her family’s established farm, Des Hofes Gerdemann, in Münster, Germany. Growing up on the family estate instilled in her a strong work ethic, a deep appreciation for heritage, and an enduring connection to her roots that she carried with her throughout her entire life.
The Heritage House & Her Extended Family
While in Germany, Lissie met Jack Lulofs. When they set off for the United States in 1985, Jack jokingly promised her they would only stay for one year—a stay that beautifully turned into more than 40 years of shared life and memories.
Together in Harvard, Illinois, Lissie and Jack owned and operated The Heritage House. Following Jack’s passing, it was Lissie’s resilience, tireless spirit, and genuine warmth that kept the restaurant thriving. To Lissie, The Heritage House was never just a business—it was a true home, and the extraordinarily loyal staff and devoted regulars were like family. She treated her customers like dear friends, greeted everyone with a welcoming presence, and fostered a close-knit team that stood faithfully by her side through every season.
Family & Connections Across the Ocean
Lissie maintained a special bond with her family abroad and especially loved welcoming and spending time with her German grand nieces and grand nephews whenever they traveled to visit her in the States. In America, she took great pride in watching the next generations grow, holding a special place in her heart for Emily and Sarah St. Cyr, and experiencing the pure joy of meeting her great-grandson, “Griffy”, this past year.
In Quiet Peace
Lissie entered into peaceful rest surrounded by family, devoted friends, and the gentle comfort of soft music. Following a brave, continued journey with cancer and health challenges, her weary body has finally found quiet ease. Her strength throughout it all was an inspiration, and she deserved nothing less than the gentle peace that embraced her in the end.
Family
Preceded in death by:
Her husband, Jack Lulofs
Her son, Andreas Gerdemann
Her parents, Friederich and Elisabeth Gerdemann
Her sister, Hildegard
Survived and lovingly remembered by:
Her brothers, Wilhelm Gerdemann and Bernhard Gerdemann
Her step-daughter Lore Lulofs Terwort and husband August Terwort
Her step-daughter Sylvia Lulofs St. Cyr and husband Kevin St. Cyr
Her granddaughter Emily St. Cyr, husband Griffin Wurtz and great-grandson “Griffy” Wurtz
Her granddaughter Sarah St. Cyr and husband Austin Miller
The beloved extended Gerdemann and Lulofs family
Her deeply devoted Heritage House staff, loyal patrons, and many lifelong friends throughout Harvard, Illinois and beyond.
“Lissie’s grace, tireless spirit, and generous heart touched everyone she met. She will be dearly missed by many and forever loved by all. Let’s all have a schluck and cheers to Lissie!"
Family and friends will gather to celebrate Lissie’s life at The Heritage House on a date to be announced.